Very Important and Useful Reminders:
3 golden rules in dealing with our children
1. No Screaming and be polite and kind always more than being kind and polite outside the house with the strangers and friends.
Allah is the Owner of our kids and Allah is Watching all the time. So when someone scream at our kids, we don’t like it and it will hurt us or we have to fight to the person who treat bad to our kids, how much more the Creator of our Children the Merciful and loving God Who Knows everything, what will Allah feel when we do bad to His Creations? Allah tells us to speak kind words to everyone. We will try to think of Allah always that He is watching us more than an employer who is watching the workers at the office or work place.
2. No bad words o calling bad names always use good words or keep quiet when there is no good words to say.
When someone calls or say bad words to us or to our kids, we don’t like it right? What about Allah the One God Who commanded us not to use bad words and told us to only use kind words.
3. No hitting.
I read that Allah will torture to those who torture others.
The prophet peace and blessings of Allah be upon him said : be merciful to others because Allah has no mercy to those who cannot be merciful to others.
May Allah keep guiding us up to the Day we will meet Him happy and successful without punishments.